'Deity' means divine nature, the highest part of yourself that holds wisdom, love, and resilience.
Learn how to tap into your inner deity and ensure that you and your children don’t become part of a broken story. Instead you'll build a new, richer life, far better than before.
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"Divorce scars your children for life",
goes the great misconception.
I remember exactly where I was, and how much I hated it, when this was first said to me by a "well-meaning" family member.
Since then, I've spent over a decade challenging this supposed truth and discovered, it's a lie.
So, if divorce must happen, then learning how to correct past mistakes and conduct yourself ethically and effectively in Court, will help secure your children's future and reclaim your happiness,
no matter what the outcome.
In truth, if a divorce is handled with grace, compassion, respect, and honesty, by even just one parent, (you), then the experience of moving through it can be a phenomenal one. It offers you and your children the opportunity to evolve far beyond your current limitations and gain invaluable skills and insights, opening doors for peace, connection and a successful future.
creating a new life, better than before
whilst also
achieving your divorce goals
Imagine
— Jen, solo mum of 3
“I was overwhelmed, constantly second-guessing myself, and terrified I was ruining my kids by getting divorced. Kashmira didn’t just give me tools, she gave me perspective.
She helped me see that this wasn't the end, it was the beginning of a new way to parent, to live, and to lead. My home is now calmer.
My children feel it and so do I.”
Unlike generalised therapy or counselling that may focus solely on one area of your life, I delve deep quickly, coaching you to explore your values, your goals and challenges, legal, emotional and financial. I strive to understand your family as a whole in order to help strengthen and prepare you for co-parenting and what lies ahead.
unfortunately, yes. you have to advocate for your family. you have to understand the system well enough to steer it in the right direction.
Working with lawyers and barristers, understanding Judges and Cafcass, supervised access and/or child arrangement orders, can all be very overwhelming and underwhelming at the same time. You wonder if any of them really understands your unique family or whether they're all simply taking a cookie cutter approach, creating more heartache and separation.
Parenting can be a challenge at the best of times, however parenting whilst going through a divorce is parenting on steroids. There are just too many heightened emotions.
So Conscious Co-Parenting rests on cultivating parental self-awareness, presence and emotional regulation to best help yourself, and your child, move smoothly through this transition, and beyond.
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meet Kashmira
— Rhea, solo mother of twins & SACRED Method client
I used to carry so much guilt and was so angry about the marriage ending, for how it might affect my kids, for not being the ‘perfect’ mother.
But working with Kashmira helped me see that healing myself is the greatest gift I can give my children. I no longer live in guilt and I'm far less triggered. And for the first time in years, I feel free.”
Especially if there are children involved, you've likely already realised the process is convoluted, confusing, antagonising and, at times, unfair.
Divorce can often feel like a game, a business, in the way that it navigates legal strategies, negotiations and personal dynamics.
So it's imperative to find a divorce coach who understands the "game" and can help you succeed, without compromising your integrity, which is crucial for a successful outcome.
With immense training, legal experience and a heart for empowerment, I'm here to show you how, when you understand the legal system and have emotional clarity, you can save yourself, and your children, years of conflict, costs, hardship and pain.
It's a robust process and my method is more than just a series of talking sessions. It’s an immersive experience that reshapes your perception of relationships and happiness, and allows you to move forward beautifully, in spite of the challenges you're facing.
I'm a personal & professional coach specialising in parents, with young or teen children, navigating a high conflict divorce or parenting challenge.
Here’s how we guide mothers from emotional survival to conscious, empowered parenting.
Step by intentional step.
A 12-week programme designed to welcome you into a life of peace and connection with your children, in spite of your divorce difficulty.
Tailored for those seeking profound growth, and guidance in court, this is a unique space to dive deep & explore and bring about lasting change.
Will lift the weight you’re carrying.
You may even smile.
Start here.
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