'Deity' means divine nature, the highest part of yourself that holds wisdom, love, and resilience.
Learn to access this part, and you will secure the peace and stability you and your children deserve.
divorce
coaching
support
empowered mothers
raise empowered children
&
cultivating inner calm
whilst also
achieving your divorce goals
Imagine
"Divorce scars your children for life",
goes the great misconception.
I've spent over a decade challenging this supposed truth and discovered, it's a lie.
So, if divorce must happen, then I will coach you on how to correct past mistakes, conduct yourself ethically and effectively in Court, secure your children's future and find your happiness,
no matter what the outcome.
In truth, if a divorce is handled with grace, compassion, respect, and honesty, by even just one parent, (you), then the experience of moving through it can be a phenomenal one. It offers you and your children the opportunity to evolve far beyond your current limitations and gain invaluable skills and insights, opening doors for peace, connection and a successful future.
Unlike generalised therapy or counselling that may focus solely on one area of your life, I delve deep quickly, coaching you to explore your values, your goals and challenges, legal, emotional and financial. I strive to understand your family as a whole in order to help strengthen and prepare you for co-parenting and what lies ahead.
unfortunately, yes. you have to advocate for your family. you have to understand the system well enough to steer it in the right direction.
Working with lawyers and barristers, understanding Judges and Cafcass, supervised access and/or child arrangement orders, can all be very overwhelming and underwhelming at the same time. You wonder if any of them really understands your unique family or whether they're all simply taking a cookie cutter approach, creating more heartache and separation.
Parenting can be a challenge at the best of times, however parenting whilst going through a divorce is parenting on steroids. There are just too many heightened emotions.
So Conscious/Co-Parenting rests on cultivating parental self-awareness, presence and emotional regulation to best help yourself, and your child, move smoothly through this transition, and beyond.
What is divorce Coaching & conscious co-parenting?
the importance of a coach
— Ariana H
If you're looking for an an intelligent, intuitive and informed coach, shoulder to cry on, friend to laugh with, all rolled into one,
then Kashmira is it.
it's not just court,
it's chess
Divorce coaching is not a luxury, it's a must!
divorce coaching is not a luxury, it's a must!
Especially if there are children involved, you've likely already realised the process is convoluted, confusing, antagonising and, at times, unfair.
Divorce can often feel like a game, a business, in the way that it navigates legal strategies, negotiations and personal dynamics.
It is imperative to find a divorce coach who understands the "game" and can help you succeed, without compromising your integrity, which is crucial for a successful outcome.
the right coach will offer you:
strategic guidance
emotional balance
effective communication &
an ethical approach
With immense training, legal experience and a heart for empowerment, I'm here to show you how, when you understand the legal system and have emotional clarity, you can save yourself, and your children, years of conflict, costs, hardship and pain.
It's a robust process and my method is more than just a series of talking sessions. It’s an immersive experience that reshapes your perception of relationships and happiness, and allows you to move forward beautifully, in spite of the challenges you're facing.
I'm a personal & professional coach specialising in parents, with young or teen children, navigating a high conflict divorce or parenting challenge.
I'm Kashmira.
hello, dear friend!
— Sooperna P
"I learned how to manage my emotions, communicate effectively and co-parent in a way that truly supports my children. I really couldn't have done it without Kashmira's coaching and support."
— Olivia T
“I was angry and stuck and not sure about anything, but coaching with Kashmira changed everything.”
— Alejandra O
“I was very lost and stress, my English is not good so Kashmira helped me with my writing to the Court and understood my point to get it across perfectly.”
— Aoyemi A
“Kashmira’s wisdom with co-parenting is second to none. She knows it and understands it better than anyone.”
— Preeti S
“Kashmira's compassionate, non-judgmental approach made me feel heard and understood. I never felt alone during the process, knowing that she was always there to listen, encourage, and offer insight.”
— Clementine B
“I highly recommend Kashmira to anyone going through a divorce — she truly made a world of difference in my life!”
— Jahnvi P
“I don’t know where I’d be today without Kashmira. Going through a divorce is draining and overwhelming, but her advice helped me make decisions that I now look back on with no regrets. I was able to reclaim my life, my peace, and my future.”
That raising children is a privilege, meant to trigger deep internal transformation within us.
Until we accept this, it's a daily struggle made harder by feelings of hurt, anger, irritation, whether we are happy in our marriage or not.
But once we accept this, life becomes more joyful and easy. Parents are led to shed the layers of baggage they have inherited during their own lifetime and are unconsciously offloading onto their children. Now, further exacerbated by the gruelling process of going through a divorce.
As you become a more conscious parent, you will transform your relationships, protecting your children from destructive, emotional turbulence and raise truly happy, well-adjusted children, in spite of the divorce or separation. You'll find yourself feeling lighter, elevated and empowered.
That raising children is a privilege, meant to trigger deep internal transformation within us.
Until we accept this, it's a daily struggle made harder by feelings of hurt, anger, irritation, whether we are happy in our marriage or not.
But once we accept this, life becomes more joyful and easy. Parents are led to shed the layers of baggage they have inherited during their own lifetime and are unconsciously offloading onto their children. Now further exacerbated by the gruelling process of going through a divorce.
As you become a more conscious parent, you will transform your relationships, protecting your children from destructive, emotional turbulence and raise truly happy, well-adjusted children, in spite of the divorce or separation. You'll find yourself feeling lighter, elevated and empowered.
the work of a conscious parent
When books and podcasts and family and friends aren't helping and you're worried about how all this stress and tension is affecting the children, is when we are called to seek Conscious Co-Parenting coaching, which reveals one profound truth.
— Dr. Shefali
Awareness of how our inner life influences our external world is the first and most pivotal step toward a transformed relationship with our children.
Recommended books providing practical tools to help you alongside coaching sessions to cement your learning and achieve your goals.
Books
A 10-week programme designed to welcome you into a life of peace and connection with your children, in spite of your divorce difficulty.
programme
Tailored for those seeking profound growth, and guidance in court, this is a unique space to dive deep & explore and bring about lasting change.
Coaching
How can I support you?
During our complimentary discovery call, we’ll discuss your unique situation, your goals for life after divorce, and determine if we’re the right fit to work together
