Together we'll create a plan and work out the best strategy for your situation

Together we'll explore your mindset and your beliefs  — which may be holding you back from moving on and fully connecting with your children — and instill new, uplifting, ideas, thoughts, behaviours, actions and reactions, to help you embrace a new reality.

Now if you have that definition in your mind, then obviously divorce, which causes a break in longevity, creates terror, failure, despair and devastation. When you have that paradigm in mind it's no wonder you can't approach divorce in a healthy abundant joyful way. It's understandable.

We need to no longer define a successful marriage as one that is long lasting. We need to define marriage on different terms. 

We need to define marriage
on the terms of growth. 
On the terms of authenticity.
On the terms of freedom.
Can I be honest with this person?
Can I grow with this person?
Can I be my most authentic self? 
And if the answer is no, then it's quite ok to put a pause to the marriage
or change the marriage or end the marriage. 

A divorce from the old is a positive thing but we're so afraid of this because of our cultural conditionings around marriage. So, in order to talk to your children about divorce, if you're going through one, you need to dig deep, go within to examine your belief systems around marriage. It is only when you come to peace about what marriage needs to be, which is growth, then if it no longer exists, there is a beautiful release. 

That beautiful release in our current paradigm is called divorce. If we can come to that with a sense of peace and equanimity and completion, understanding that cycles change in nature all the time. If cycles did not change then we would not have the universe that we have today. So divorce is just another change in cycle.

So in order to talk to our kids with health and abundance we need to start by transforming our whole understanding of marriage.

 If we view it like that, our children will also absorb this message. When they see us abundant and thriving and free and happy to have completed the cycle, they will struggle less and have a more positive, peaceful view of divorce. 

but first, you need to genuinely feel this way.
and that's where I will help.  

As world renowned parenting expert, Dr Shefali, so beautifully explains, the reason we're all so scared of this word is because our understanding of marriage is faulty. The current paradigm around marriage states that the successful marriage is one that lasts for eternity. 
It doesn't matter if both people are miserable. 
It doesn't matter if they don't speak to each other. 
It doesn't matter if the greatest lies they tell are to each other. 
None of that matters.
The key indicator of a successful marriage is one thing and one thing only, and that is longevity.