My methodology aims to rewrite your story (less tragedy, more fairytale) and empowers mothers to reimagine, rebuild and transform their family life. First, you'll learn how to connect, then course correct.
the method
more than a lawyer,
you need a coach
Divorce coaching is not a luxury, it's a must!
divorce coaching is not a luxury, it's a must!
Especially if there are children involved, you've likely already realised the process is convoluted, confusing, antagonising and, at times, unfair.
Divorce can often feel like a game, a business, in the way that it navigates legal strategies, negotiations and personal dynamics.
It is imperative to find a divorce coach who understands the "game" and can help you succeed, without compromising your integrity, which is crucial for a successful outcome.
to succeed you need:
strategic guidance
emotional balance
effective communication &
an ethical approach
So you're getting divorced and you know you need to do this right. For yourself and for your children.
deep breath, exhale...
But you don't know how to get off this roller coaster of emotions and you don't know how to handle the hearings and the paperwork, or the safeguarding call from Cafcass, the judges and solicitors or the contact arrangements, or the children, or the soon-to-be-ex who is suddenly behaving like an arch enemy.
I hear you
i see you &
i understand
My proven method
the challenges
the goalS
✔️ Avoid unnecessary conflict and communication.
✔️ Manage your child's emotions and/or aggression before, during or after contact with the co-parent.
✔️ Set boundaries for the co-parent in order to maintain your sanity.
✔️ Use healthy strategies to keep yourself calm and peaceful.
✔️ Be the stable, consistent role model in your child's life.
✔️ Manage and calm sibling rivalry.
✔️ Practice Conscious/Co Parenting skills.
✔️ Feel calm and confident going into a solicitor’s office and to Court.
✔️ Find a balance between responsibilities.
✔️ Handle court hearings and court documents confidently - saving you thousands of £££££.
✔️ Reply to the accusatory emails from your soon-to-be-ex and his lawyers in a way that benefits you.
✔️ Have the happiest, most loving, respectful, relationship with your children, now and forever.
✗ You're worried about dealing with Cafcass and the Court system.
✗ Your co-parent attacks your character in front of your children and/or tells lies about you.
✗ You have feelings of anger, disappointment or sadness.
✗ There is a financial inequality between households.
✗ Your child/ren may be starting to change or act out.
✗ Your co-parent slanders you to people in your child’s life: teachers, family, friends, etc.
✗ You or your co-parent frequently break the Parenting Agreements.
✗ You or your co-parent neglect the needs of your children.
✗ It's hard when the children have to leave for contact and when they return.
✗ You can't understand why your soon-to-be ex is behaving like such a self-centred egomaniac.
— Michelle C
I found the courage to stand up for myself. Her guidance was invaluable.
- Become your best self.
- Feel confident and empowered in yourself, in Court and in your abilities to thrive and to excel.
- Feel at peace in all your relationships and in the world.
embrace your new life
master communication
- Identify the real needs of the child.
- Choose the right strategy to manage emotions and behaviours.
- Apply the strategy wisely.
build new skills
- Master self regulation.
- Master your inner dialogue.
- Master conscious choice.
- Reflect in real time and practice.
get clarity
- Get clarity on what you want and why.
- Diagnose your parenting style.
- Identify your patterns.
- Break the loops.
- Reflect in real time and practice.
10 hours of courage now, erase a lifetime of grief
the method
Book a free discovery call now
— Alpana M
“Kashmira’s speaking engagement at our divorce mum's support group was truly inspiring. Her ability to connect with the audience and convey powerful messages was remarkable.
She left a lasting impression.”
"The mind is like water.
When it's turbulent, it's difficult to see. When it's calm, everything becomes clear."
- PRASAD MAHES
Emerging research has shown how investing in a specialist divorce coach actually saves you money, as well as reducing conflict and tension.
££££
Life has changed dramatically and permanently for the better!
sessions
average savings
20
Everything is making sense and falling into place nicely!
sessions
10
Stress has largely reduced and you can see the way forward.
MINUTES
60
The results are quick!
Children from low-conflict divorced homes tend to fare far better than those from high-conflict marriages that stay together.
be your best!
Divorce coaching with me will help you make informed, rational, calm decisions instead of reactive ones driven by emotions, which lawyers tend to exploit.
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the method works!
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